by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving
If you are the main caregiver for someone with dementia, there’s a question that may quietly sit in the back of your mind… 👉 “What would happen to them if something happened to me?” Most of us don’t like to think about it. We’re already dealing with so much.We’re...
by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving, Medical/health, Safety
Most people don’t realize how common choking and aspiration can become as dementia progresses… Until it happens. Eating and drinking are things we don’t usually think twice about. But in dementia, the brain changes can begin to affect how a person chews, swallows, and...
by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving
When caregiving ends, most people expect grief. They expect tears.They expect heartbreak.They expect to feel overwhelmed with loss. But what many caregivers feel instead is something much harder to explain. A quiet emptiness. A feeling of being a little lost…a little...
by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving, Medical/health
Taking a loved one with dementia to the doctor can feel exhausting before you even walk through the door. Sometimes the hardest part is just getting them there. They may refuse to go, insist nothing is wrong, or become upset when they realize where they’re headed. And...
by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving
Healthcare gets a whole lot harder when dementia enters the picture. You’re not just a spouse or daughter or son anymore — you suddenly become the advocate, the memory keeper, the historian, and the one who speaks for your loved one when they can’t explain what’s...
by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving
Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s or another dementia is one of the most loving things you will ever do — but it’s also one of the hardest. The changes come slowly at first… and then all at once. One day you’re managing just fine, and the next you’re...
by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving
Caring for someone with dementia means your mind is always running. Even on the calm days, your body stays in “alert mode,” watching, listening, and waiting. Most caregivers don’t even notice it happening—because this becomes their normal. You’re checking in… You’re...
by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving
As dementia progresses, everyday routines like getting dressed can suddenly become confusing and emotional. When clothes become a source of distress, it’s usually the brain—not the person—that’s struggling. If you’re caring for someone with dementia, chances are...
by Larea Mcqueen | Caregiving
Dementia-Related Personality Changes: What Caregivers Need to Know Caring for someone with dementia isn’t just about memory loss. One of the hardest parts—emotionally—is watching the person you love start to act in ways you’ve never seen before. They may become...